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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one said this was a an ex-girlfriend.  OP said it wad a friend who is a girl who grew up with him.  Different[/quote]

Agreed.  I'm a very happily married DW.   My best friend is a male that I grew up with.  Our parents were friends from college and he and I were born a month apart and grew up on the same street our whole lives.  There has NEVER been an inkling of other feelings for him.  He's a brother.  Thankfully DH understand this and respects this and they are actually really good friends.  [/quote]

But if your male friend was a cold jackass to your husband from the first time they met, would you feel the same? Would you tell your husband tough, the friend was there first so your feelings don't matter?  I  doubt you would.

Betcha that is really why OP is upset. Husband is telling her by his words and actions that her feelings are second place.[/quote]

Well we are only getting OP's side of things.  I'm guessing what happened was friend tried to be nice, OP blew her off, friend stopped trying.  I mean, OP doesn't exactly seem friendly on here.  So had that been me, I would have 
1. Been mad at DH for treating friend like crap
2. Been mad at friend for not bothering to really try.

If her husband's friendship is anything like mine, this person is really like a sibling.  It's not a concept that many people can get if they haven't been in our shoes.

I'm not saying our situations are the same.  There just seems to be something about this whole scenario that is being left out and that's why OP is so annoyed by it. [/quote]

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