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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My guess is that he said no to visiting her with you when he was down there because he knows  you don't like her and he didn't want you to then complain about taking the time to see her. He probably wants to talk openly with her about your problem with their friendship - and not in front of you. You don't have to like that, but people often talk to friends about spouses - that's life.   OP,would you have the same problem given all the same facts if the friend were a guy?  If not, then this really is about trust / jealousy.  You can't win this one.  I have deferred far too much to my wife over the years om visiting even local male friends, and that too has huge negativevconsequences over time.  You give space or he will resent you. And if it's all a sham and he is trying to have a fling with her, your focus should be on why. Fighting over the trip won't help.     [/quote]

Would you pick a female friend who has been obviously cold amd bitchy to your wife and current relationships over your wife's feelings?[/quote]

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