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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, sounds like you were dealing with a narcissist. I'm definitely love-avoidant, but what you're describing is something high drama and quite different. If anything, the problem with people like myself is the lack of emotion and drama.[/quote] The first was probably not a narcissist but may have been BPD. The latter was not high drama at all - the emotional rollercoaster described my own feelings as we'd get closer, then she'd pull away. If I cooled off/backed off, she'd be interested again. In terms of "external" drama though...almost none. Nope, she was classic avoidant attachment adult child of an alcoholic. The long conversations with others picking over me and our relationship were part of her fault-finding process to justify her urgent need to pull back away. I don't think she mourned it very long - she was back on dating sites very quickly. I wasn't really up for anything for months. [/quote]
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