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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guy here.  Everyone is telling OP the tricks for getting another man.  OP should work on getting herself together and finding her own happiness. Otherwise she will latch on to the first person who comes along and be in a rebound relationship or marriage.

You will be ok.  Good luck. [/quote]

Agree with this.  Also, the prior folks counseling you to go see a lawyer now are right.  You need to take control of a few things here OP - whether or not your husband leaves.  But especially if you think he's planning to then he is probably actively PLANNING.  And you need to be doing the same.

Buck up, make plans and get some good legal advice.  Thoughts about dating come waaaay down the line.  Right now you need a plan for financial stability, housing, custody, etc...

You will feel better about everything, no matter what happens, if you feel prepared and able to cope.  Legal advice is the first best step.  (And maybe securing some money in a protected account somewhere if you don't already have that.)[/quote]

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