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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the positive stories, I really need them right now.  He told me he wanted to leave months ago and he still feels the same way so I am just waiting for the night he comes home and packs his things.  As I mentioned, I have tried everything and he just isn't receptive and just doesn't want to try.  The thought of not being with my kids is devastating too - my youngest is only a year old and I just can't imagine losing half her time.  She's my baby.  How can I lose that time with her - it is so precious with all of the firsts and learning.  She is like a sparkling light.  And the older one will be so, so upset and that is just heartbreaking too and I want to be around every day to hear her creative stories and infectious laugh.  Everything makes me cry and I just want to know there is some hope and I can pick up the million tiny pieces.  I am able to keep it together in front of the kids, but as soon as they go to sleep I am a mess, and I am finding it hard to concentrate at work.  And I know he doesn't care.  Sorry for the rant - obviously I am not in a good place right now.

I guess one upside to this is I have dropped a ton of weight because I have no appetite and I was only around 10 pounds over my ideal weight anyway.  My stomach, on the other hand, is not that great because I have not focused on exercise since I had the second baby.  Maybe I can start working on that as a distraction.

Thanks again and keep the positive stories coming!  They really, really help.[/quote]

OP, you need to go see a family/divorce lawyer [b]now[/b][u] and start planning on how to get primary custody of your kids. I have a one year old as well, and if my husband was checking out and wanted to divorce me, there is no way in hell I could comprehend seeing my gorgeous baby only 50/50. He wants to leave, so he'll have to take the hit on custody. Go see a lawyer!![/quote]

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