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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I find the buzzed look very attractive!  I don't think most women are put off by thinning hair.  Really.

My DH has a full head of hair, but if/when it begins to thin, I would NEVER allow him to take drugs for it.  I don't care if he has hair or not, but I care about his health (I don't think the drugs can really be so good for you).  I'm sure that the people who love you feel the same...and women who find you attractive with hair will find you just as attractive without. What does your wife say about this? [/quote]

I don't have a wife.  If I did, it'd be no big deal!  I'm in my early 30s, been on Rogaine a couple years.  It sucks because there are side effects, though it has slowed hair loss.  So I have to see if I can use something without side effects, or just cut real short and go bald.   Which will basically be the end of my chances for an attractive woman...does anyone swipe right on a bald guy?

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If I were single, I would not swipe on by "a bald guy" because I don't think baldness is a flaw, sort of the way I don't think green eyes are a flaw.  Some people find green eyes very attractive, and some people prefer blue or brown, but someone with green eyes shouldn't spend a minute fretting about it.  Some people with green eyes are attractive, but some aren't: it isn't dependent on such a small thing.  Some people will find you attractive with no hair, and some people won't, but remember that this is how it is with all physical traits.  You need to build up your confidence.  You can certainly find a woman you consider attractive who will love you with or without hair, I promise.

I work with an absolutely gorgeous, handsome man who is balding but buzzes it short.  He's very well-spoken and well-dressed, and the contrast between that and the sheer ruggedness and masculinity of the buzzed head is wildly attractive, as if he moonlights as a Special Services soldier or a distance runner or something when he's not being professional and articulate. This particular individual would be LESS attractive if he had a full head of hair.  That is honestly how I feel, and you would probably consider me attractive.  If I were single and you were hesitant and not confident enough to approach me because you thought I wouldn't like your hair situation, you would miss out!

I read somewhere that bald men have a higher amount of testosterone, too.  Stop taking Rogaine.  Buzz it off and move confidently on with your life.  And don't get hair plugs![/quote]

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