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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]3 months and just getting to 2nd base? There's the real problem [/quote]

We have been on 5 dates. We both travel a lot for work so most of my getting to know her time was on the phone.

I have had a habit of moving too fast with women. This was the one time where I decided to let things slow down and play it out. Oddly, I do think he is a kind guy and feel bad that he has had to live life this way. But this is the second time it's happened to him. This means he's doing this on purpose. Why? If he keeps it up he's going to piss off the wrong dude.[/quote]

FYI: you need to use female pronouns. It's a little confusing sometimes, I know, but you refer to people as they gender they present themselves as. If you were told that Laura in the Accounting Department at work used to be Larry, you'd refer to HER as Laura. You're not doing it now because you're mad at the transgender woman you were dating.

You are angry and feel violated because you were turned on by a guy. That makes you worry that you're gay. You're not gay. It was your body's physiological response to being stimulated. If a woman has an orgasm while she's being raped it doesn't mean she liked it - it means her body had a response. Like laughing when you're tickled even if you don't like being tickled.

Be upset for the weekend. Then move on with your life. You have no legal recourse at all, sorry. If you're truly secure in your sexuality, someday you will laugh to yourself about this. [/quote]

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