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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey similar thing happened to me last week.  I didn't sleep with this girl, but we went on 3 dates.  My question is I truly did like hanging out with her.  She and I went salsa dancing as well.  Even though she ignored my last text can I send her one in a few days inviting her out to dance with a few of my friends.  Stating that we can hang out just as friends.  Not sure if that is a weird thing to do?[/quote]

No, it's not weird.  But I would call her. Then you can acknowledge that "the fourth date" is often fraught with meaning. "Does this mean he thinks we're an item?  Does this mean he thinks the next step is going to bed?  Does this mean something, anything?"  And you can assure her that it really just is that you're enjoying spending time with her, whether it has romantic potential or not.  And you can say you think she'll really like your friends, too.  If it doesn't lead to a fifth date, that's okay.  One date at a time!  And if there's anything she wants to tell you--even if that is 'I'm not feeling an interest in further dating'--you can take it like a man. :)

I think women (and men) often are coy about saying no or I'm not interested because it hurts their date's feelings.  Ironically, being elusive and playing games is even MORE hurtful, IMO.  But it's passive, so it's the route many women take.  Stupid.

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