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[quote=Anonymous]If you're not a kid anymore, then I'd take the straight-talk, say-it-like-it-is approach.  In other words, be honest.

You can tell her you're really interested in seeing her again, you think you both have a good time together, but you're not sure if she's interested or maybe needs some more time to think about it?  You can say that really, her feelings are none of your business unless she wants to make them your business :) but if she would like to go out again, she shouldn't hesitate to say so.  You don't have any specific expectations on a date except to both have a good time.  You're not on any particular timeline, deadline, or agenda, and you just feel lucky you found someone smart, beautiful, charming and funny who strikes your fancy.

You can also invite her to just say whatever it is she's thinking. If she's thinking that she doesn't see a date in the future, she can tell you this because you can take this news like a mature man. Yes, you'd be disappointed, but you'd wish her well and hope she finds the kind of happiness she wants and deserves.

As a grown woman, I would appreciate this kind of conversation.  :)  I would feel like I didn't have to drop hints, knowing that the adult man I canoodled can handle straight-talkin' women![/quote]

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