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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well I texted a while ago with no response.  Not normal for her, but hey people get busy at work.  I think I have my answer, but it's a learning experience. [/quote]

Man here. I realize that I've been out of the dating game for a long time, but I don't think I'd have texted her. Since she's already shut the door on this week and weekend, I'd probably have simply waited and called her next week and asked for a date.

I've never dated in the texting generation, but to me texting in these situations seems like a bad idea and ripe for misunderstandings. It also seems (to me) to come off as passive and weak. But maybe I'm just old.[/quote]

Wait I asked her out in person at the end of our fourth date.  I didn't text her to go out. She gave me the oh I'm going to be tired Thursday since I'll be out Wednesday line.  [/quote]

I'm saying that today's text was unnecessary. What were you hoping to accomplish? It comes off (imo) as weak.

You should (again, in my opinion) have simply left her alone and called again next week.[/quote]

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