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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH is a jerk. Telling you that served no purpose. [b]Tell him to grow up and stop whining[/b].[/quote]

It is what it is now.  Yes, he has the right to feel upset, but what are his choices now:

1.  divorce you - get his freedom, but everyone suffers financially, and the kid suffers most of all 
2.  grow up - he's got a kid now and deal with it, make the most of it.  Hopefully,  he doesn't ever take it out on the kid
3.  Do what he's doing now - take it out on you and the marriage and be resentful, then end up in divorce (see #1)

There's no easy solution here.  Just make the one that he can live with.  What does he want you to do?  Atone for it by serving him hand/foot and making your life miserable?

We've been in kind of similar situation.  I've had resentment towards my DH for something, and vice versa.  You learn to deal with it, manage it, and move on.  Otherwise, what really is the alternative?  Divorce or stay in a marriage full of resentment, which probably will end up in divorce.[/quote]

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