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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're infertile, have tried multiple rounds of IVF, and husband does not want donor sperm or adoption. I'm 37 and feel like I'm at an impasse. We married with the expectation and understanding that we'd have kids together. But given the infertility and refusal to seek other ways to have kids, would it be crazy to get divorced? I'm just not sure I can see my future with my husband w/o kids, but he's perfectly happy with just the two of us.[/quote]

Life is the longest thing you will ever do, do you want such a big "what if" weighing on you? It is not crazy to get divorced if the two of you want different paths in life. Don't compromise on something as major as having children, don't set yourself up for those regrets. Your DH might agree to donor or adoption if you bring up separation, but keep in mind, he'd be compromising what he wanted out of life and may live with regrets.

No one will like this, but since this is anonymous and all...

My BIL divorced his wife over infertility. A lot of people gave him hell for it but hes married with three children and over the moon happy. Because that is the life he envisioned for himself. [/quote]

How is his ex doing?[/quote]

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