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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is probably a troll not asking a real question, but I will try to answer anyway:
- I think women in their 30s are beautiful, they have more confidence independence, maturity, they let their true personality and style shine more instead of following trends or trying to fit in a group of friends
- Mothers do something for me. Good looking playful moms with their young kids in tow. True beauty

Full disclosure: I am a 38 yo French (it may matter) man married to a 36 yo woman.

What I love and find in my wife: simple elegance, natural looks (no heavy make up, bold colors, loud jewelry), I don't notice really grey hair and small wrinkles, as long as someone looks healthy and happy.

But I'll admit that there are a few things I dislike even more from a woman in her 30s than in her 20s (it shows more):
- [b]someone who gave up on her personal appearance, not everyone can be thin (some women actually look better when significantly curvy) but I feel like I see too many mothers taking motherhood or age as an excuse to let themselves go: walking around in tracksuits, dirty hair, lack of elegance, a general air of frumpiness, no efforts to keep a healthy figure.[/b]. I know I will get stones thrown at me but seriously past the first 6 months after birth I don't think anyone should use kids as an excuse to look like they just rolled out of bed.
- someone who lacks class: a beautiful 20yo can wear loud makeup and tacky clothes and still convey some sort of class. women in their 30s,40s,50s and above not so much[/quote]

Obviously this can cross gender lines but since we're talking about women, I agree. I know a few women who simply never bother to try and look nice. I realize everyone doesn't always look their best but I'm talking women who never bother wearing nice clothes, getting a flattering haircut, wearing even a smidge of makeup, etc. And these aren't harried mothers with little babies and zero time. They just don't seem to care. And some of them are married to pretty well put together professional men, if I do say so. It's as if they feel like they've already won the game so why try anymore.

And yes, this can apply to men as well.[/quote]

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