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[quote=Anonymous]I had a stillbirth at 20 weeks. Getting cards was great. Getting flowers were even better. Made me feel like my baby was a real person; you'd send flowers for someone who had lived 75 years, why not someone who hadn't had the chance to live? The best things I heard from family is "you baby is apart of the family and won't be forgotten". And another friend said, "I sit in the sadness with you". He didn't try to make me feel better. He acknowledged my sadness and was brave enough to sit in it with me. Whatever you do, don't ask her "how are you doing?" I hated that question. Unless you are in the inner circle, you don't really want to know or I don't really want to tell you how I'm really feeling. So now I have to expend energy to say something fake like, "Good as can be expected" [/quote]
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