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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can I just say that I hate this fucking term.  It is condescending.  Those who use it don't want to be associated with those that were somehow "forced" into single motherhood?  If we had a failed marriage, at least we got to marriage.  If we never got married, we chose to be mothers and keep/parent the baby.  Why do you feel the need to make this distinction, what does it gain you?  Can I just say I'm a single mom, and it is my choice.  Every single day, I choose to wake up and be a parent.  We all have choices.  The use of that term judges and diminishes the lives and choices of others.  You are no better or worse than the rest of us.  And let me tell you, I'd rather be a single mom, than a married mom who hates her husband/life, or a mom who gave up or aborted her baby and regrets it (totally pro-choice and pro-adoption, just saying I know I would regret it).  You didn't chose to not find a suitable partner anymore than I did.

So yes, I choose to be who I am just as much as you do.

Rant over.[/quote]

Some people are childless by choice and some aren't. Some families are blended and some aren't. Sometime you need to make the distinction to convince y your situation.[/quote]

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