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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Husband committed kid to every weekend sport obligation that runs all summer long. Every single weekend except this one.

I work full time and am equal breadwinner. Better benefits, even. My job is equally stressful.

Plans were not made in advance to go away. Plans to go into the office this weekend were announced only after I suggested we leave. He freaks out about how HARD it will be to go somewhere or do something. Reality is that I'm the one who does all the work to prepare, and he manages to pack his own clothes and that's about it. He just doesn't want to do anything that doesn't fit in to the narrative he had in mind.

Work is not the obstacle here. That could easily be worked around on either end of travel plans. He just doesn't want to go, therefore none of us should go, even if all other family members want to. Because then he'd miss out on what he doesn't want to do. Perfectly rational, right?[/quote]The kind of.nonsense some women want to break their marriage over never ceases to amaze me OP.  It's not like he said he needs to go out and get drunk.  He needs to get work done and you are making him feel like shit for it.  You want to exclude him from the family.  Tell you what--why not tell your husband to.take the kids out of town without you and you put in some overtime over the weekend to make up for whatever income he is concerned about losing?  Or, you coukd just shut your trap, stop making your husband the bad guy, and find things to do around town this weekend.  Were you planning on hitting the hotel bar after putting the kids to.sleep and getting fucked or something?  Can't do that unless you go out of tiwn, can you?  Or were you going to meet up with your affair partner using the trip with the kids as cover?[/quote]

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