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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Husband committed kid to every weekend sport obligation that runs all summer long. Every single weekend except this one. I work full time and am equal breadwinner. Better benefits, even. My job is equally stressful. Plans were not made in advance to go away. Plans to go into the office this weekend were announced only after I suggested we leave. He freaks out about how HARD it will be to go somewhere or do something. Reality is that I'm the one who does all the work to prepare, and he manages to pack his own clothes and that's about it. He just doesn't want to do anything that doesn't fit in to the narrative he had in mind. Work is not the obstacle here. That could easily be worked around on either end of travel plans. He just doesn't want to go, therefore none of us should go, even if all other family members want to. Because then he'd miss out on what he doesn't want to do. Perfectly rational, right?[/quote]
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