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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How is hearing what other people experienced going to help you? I don't get this post at all. It sucks that it happened, but your experience is your own. What exactly do you want from anyone here?[/quote]

Because with ghosting there is generally no trigger, nothing that you've done, nothing that happened between you to cause the slow fade.  Things in your own head haven't changed, in fact things in your own head could be great and the person has never indicated that there is a problem in the relationship....they just withdraw and quietly fade away leaving you wondering what the heck.  You find yourself rationalizing, trying to make sense out of their behavior...explaining away and tolerating treatment that you would never normally tolerate.  An argument, a break up, even cutting someone off completely after they've done you wrong is understandable.  Ghosting happens during good times and without explanation.[/quote]

OP here again. Absolutely. It's very confusing and horrible to experience. I just wanted to touch base with some people who may have been through it and who understand. If you don't get the point of a post, don't hang around. It's really not a personal insult to you. Just move on and let people get on with things they need to get on with. [/quote]

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