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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How is hearing what other people experienced going to help you? I don't get this post at all. It sucks that it happened, but your experience is your own. What exactly do you want from anyone here?[/quote]

Not sure why the negativity and judgement.  I read the OP's several posts and I thought she was clear and made her points several times.  It seems that some are reading quickly, but not carefully. She said long relationship of [b]at least [/b]six months, she clearly said she ended the relationship, and asked if anyone else has gone through the ghosting?
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That wasn't negative or judgmental. I did read her posts, and I'm not sure, based on what she wrote a few times, what she's actually looking for. How will hearing what other people went through help her? It was a legitimate question. These situations are so personal, so individual, and so dependent on the people involved that hearing someone say "yeah, that happened to me" does, what exactly? It seems the relationship is over, yes?[/quote]

Hearing that someone else experienced a similar situation and is ok helps the person know that they will make it out ok on the other side. Hearing that someone else experienced something crappy from a loved one, helps that person know that crap happens to eveyone. It helps the person know that they are not alone having that type of experience, even though it is not the exact same experience being that they are different people. These experiences are not so personal, so individual, and so dependent on the people involved that another person can't learn from another person's experience.   [/quote]

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