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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there a trailer for the show?

SN: I've always thought J&J was such a ridiculously pretension way for Blacks to once again try desperately to mimic Whites.[/quote]

Really?  What is the name of this white organization that Jack & Jill (founded in 1938) is trying to "mimic"?  Please tell me all about the national organization, created by white mothers, to provide social, cultural and educational opportunities for their white children.  Oh, that's right--such an organization doesn't exist.  And mimic doesn't mean what you think it means.

You seem to believe that anytime AA do something to improve their lives, they must be trying to imitate white people.  In your mind, they cannot possibly just have high standards.  Please raise YOUR standards and free YOUR mind.
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Whites didn't have to start an exclusive organization. It was simply called being a part of high society. White high society is what J&J continues to try to duplicate. Why else would you be so proud of your exclusivity and need to be invited to join.

Nope! Not offended by your attempted insults. You know nothing of me nor my accomplishments. I promise you they, my material possessions, and lifestyle run circles around you. Therefore, I have no need to wish to be a part of a members only group to give my children opportunities.[/quote]

Why do you care so much???  I can honestly say my participation in Jack and Jill was one of my best childhood/teen experiences.  Their programming and opportunities are unparalleled.  I have so many fond memories of the teen conferences I attended and all of the wonderful friends I met from around the country.  Until you are a part of J&J, you really have no idea how the organization strengthens and prepares children for college and the work world.  But more importantly, it helps build self esteem and confidence, a crucial cornerstone for individual success.  Honestly, if you ever get the chance to join, then take it - your kids will thank you later.  As a black child raised in a predominantly white suburb, I know I am eternally grateful my mom put forth the time, money and effort so I could participate.

The reason the organization is exclusive is because generally, people like to socialize with people who they have things in common with.  So J&J members tend to extend invitations to their friends who are similarly situated, which is usually very highly educated and/or successful people who are financially comfortable.  This type of like minded socializing is not really unusual.  I am surprised you are so offended by it.   I really don't see the benefit of just letting any person in.  I like the fact that a person has to be invited in because that means her sponsor really knows the member and is vouching for her in many ways, including that she shares the same values as the members;  that she is professional and poised in her interactions with others and that she is able to afford all of the activities offered.

I have heard people say that J&J should do activities with inner city children/families or for the poor.  The thing is J&J does do lots of charity work for the poor and children/families in the inner city;  however, it is not a charitable organization.  It is a mother's organization dedicated to providing wonderful opportunities and socialization for our children.

I think you should be proud that an organization like this exists, even if you are not a part of it.   Also try and gain a little more insight before you post.  Everything you have said so far is untrue, which is odd when information about the organization's purpose and history is so readily available.  It almost sounds like you wanted to get in but could not.  I know you say this is not true but you seem unusually interested in this thread, yet are proclaiming you have no interest in the organization.[/quote]

Guess what?

Mothers can--and do--provide opportunities and prepare their children for college without the pretentiousness of J&J.

How do you think the 98% of successful Blacks who weren't fortunate enough to be invited into your group got to be that way? Surely you don't think J&J is the only way to success if you're black, do you?

I'm glad it was a wonderful experience for you, but that doesn't negate the fact that it's outdated, was created to replicate the white upper crust and is indicative of some deep-rooted issues in the AA community.

How're those debutante balls working for ya?[/quote]

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