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[quote=Anonymous]My best friend from growing up had an affair recently.  She is not in this area ( where traffic is not an issue/people live closer to work) so that could have helped...but as the OP stated how they "don't get the time"...I was the same way, couldn't understand it? But as others pointed out when there is a will there is a way. She said 90% of the affair happened during work hours ( he was a coworker). He lived near the office and they would go to lunch at his place. Or after work she would tell DH she had a late meeting ( again nothing crazy she would still be home for dinner with the family) and go to the guys place.  They communicated 100% on there work phones.  I am not condoning it or supporting it, but the whole mentality "the spouse must be an idiot"...I strongly believe the affair is not the reason for maritial issues, but most of the time a symptom of a bigger issue. If your marriage is in trouble already, most likely you are not communicating as well as you should be, and unless something is incredibly overt, you may not notice. [/quote]

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