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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kids are better off with bio parents, and everyone knows this including the pro-adoption crowd. That is why adoptive parents always live in fear that their "child" will want to find their real parents and will love their real parents better, because they know in their hearts that bio families have a profound bond. As a woman who has carried and given birth to a child the whole idea of adoption fills me with a cold dread. I honestly think any woman who's done the same would be against adoption bc it is just so unthinkable to me. [/quote] This is pure ignorance. I am a bio mom with secondary infertility and I am in the process of adoption with a non-profit agency. It is not a decision we made lightly. Unlike you, I have experience that informs my opinion - I've taken education courses, read extensively, know adopters and adoptive parents personally, and met many additional birth parents, adoptive parents and adoptees through my classes. Their experience, related to me firsthand, does not fit your narrative. But that is because you have NO idea what you are talking about. [/quote]
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