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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, when you talk of extremes, you are (likely) no better than your parents. Rational and healthy individuals do not rely on extremes.[/quote] +1 But I bet her therapists and husband have told her this already so she turned to DCUM.[/quote] easy for people who have never been in a toxic or abusive relationship to say. OP, not exactly the same, but i cut my sister out of my life, with my DH's blessing. and since my sister hates children generally cutting her out of my kids' lives was a non-issue. i won't bore you with the details, but i just stopped communicating after the final, massive blowout against me of which nobody (DH, my parents, nor I) could make sense. after 30 years of this kind of relationship, i had just had it and have my own life to lead without indulging in her drama. now, she really didn't reach out to me much, either. so in essence we both cut each other off it has been 3 years since we have had any contact outside of when we gather at my parents (which is 1x a year when we come to town). i get sad from time to time that i have chosen this path...but honestly? my life is much better without her being an actively destructive part in it. i wish you the best of luck. [/quote]
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