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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am sending plenty of calm strength to protect your kids from your ILs and husband. NEVER lose your temper, but steadfastly get your own way by doing whatever the hell your children need from you. You can prepare a snack for your children in the kitchen. You can get them to shower or bathe, whenever they need to. You can go out whenever you want to. When DH yells at you, stare at him and do not respond. Stare at your ILs and do not respond. The only words that should come out of your mouth should be polite and quiet. Meanwhile, just go ahead and do your thing. Unless they physically lay hands on you, they can't stop you! ILs will understand you're not a pushover. DH will understand that IL visits should be curtailed because you're not taking their shit lying down. You're the mother - you decide. End of story. [/quote]
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