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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dont just think about today, what about 10 years from now, 15? Would you feel empty if your life looked exactly the same as it does today wih just the two of you? Or does that sound ideal? Now what about if all your friends, siblings and neighbors are consumed with their family lives? Might help you decide without focusing just on the admittedly boring work of the baby years. [/quote] I guess that's the hard part - would i feel empty vs the mom with the close relationship with their 15 y/o absolutely...would I feel empty vs the parents that do all the right things but has a kid that's just not on the right track? I don't know. I'd show up and do my best but I don't know if I love having kids for the sake of having kids vs that imaginary hopeful but far from guaranteed good future family life[/quote]
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