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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here and I have no idea why some people to whom this thread presumably does not apply are posting ad hominems repeatedly.  If you think black men are great, then go date one.  If you disapprove of interracial dating, then date intraracially.  Save the rest of your drama for someone who cares.[/quote]

I posted asking why you're focus is on what Black men are lacking for you. I'm an AA woman myself who dates Black and White (and other) men. If someone posted a thread about preferring Black women because White women are slutty and classless and high maintenance, it would come across more as someone with sour grapes about White women than a praise of Black women. You're engaged...yet you're talking about what men who are *not* you're husband are missing. Well, if you're marrying your guy because you're happily in love, who cares???

A PP made a valid point about your future children. I would hope that you have only daughters but then you might teach them to also think like you. There are Black men who speak just as poorly as you do of Black women and you all come across as wounded people pretending to be unbothered. I'm sure you've met some real assholes who are also Black men. Was every man in your family a piece of filth as well? What about Dr. King? (I'd mention Obama, but you'd probably credit his White side.) Like it or not, your son will be viewed as a Black man and he will have to deal with other people's (often negative) perceptions of what his capabilities are. It would be nice if he doesn't have a Black mother who isn't also inherently biased as well. [/quote]

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