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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I were in your shoes OP, I'd stay until the kids were grown. After that, I would just explain we have no chemistry and it's best to go our separate ways.

My aunt and uncle are somewhat similar except for them it's strictly a business contract. They have zero chemistry, don't love each other but the benefits they've gained outweigh all of that. Thank goodness they don't have kids. [/quote]

We can't stay together and not have sex. It will break his heart if/when he finds out about this. Living together after that would be appalling. There is no way.[/quote]

You said you have no chemistry.  But seems to me, if you are not able to make yourself even have sex with him, then you are physically repulsed by him (even though by your own admission he is an attractive guy since women check him out).  Why?  I think you do have some issues.  You need a different therapist to help you figure what the heck is going on.[/quote]

We do have sex, it's just not the type that I want. And it's not very often. Maybe 4 times a month. He is objectively good looking. I don't know why I'm not attracted to him. Let's put it this way. I would be hurt and angry if I found out he was cheating on me. But it wouldn't be devastated. I would move on variety easily. [/quote]

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