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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate the whole "HD LD" internet thing. Sex is a complex emotional, physical, and psychological thing, and it waxes and wanes naturally in all relationships over time as normal couples face normal pressures and challenges. It should not be turned into some kind of immutable identity thing.[/quote] +1. I also hate how we seem to treat is as happening in a vacuum on these threads. Sure, sometimes is goes down the road of "well, maybe if you were meeting your spouse's needs in other areas, they would meet your needs here." But in general, it seems like we typically end up discussing sex drive as if it's a wholly separate thing from the rest of the marriage, and your quality as a spouse is wholly dependent upon whether you're fully meeting your spouse's sexual needs. Someone could be doing everything else right in the marriage, but if they're asking for sex too much or not giving enough blowjobs, then they fail as a spouse.[/quote]
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