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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She outearns you by a "wide margin" with only a couple years ago difference.  Maybe she doesnt want to tie herself, financially, to someone who's not on her level. But maybe she's lonely and wants someone to chill with.

That's my guess.[/quote]

But if you were a good "catch" (which she is). Above average looks (I'd say 7.5/10, though I hate rankings crap), above average intelligence, and a huge income, why wouldn't you run out and look for your mate when you're still under 40? At 33, I don't really have the same priorities/concerns (esp. since kids aren't a priority of mine). It just baffles me. We may not be married, but I'm benefitting financially right now for sure. We live in her house and she pays the mortgage. [/quote]

Except that when you two break up, she gets to keep the house and you have to bounce.  Financially, it might be worth it to her to have a young guy around that she's not wanting to be with long term.  Wealthy men do it all the time- essentially "keep" a woman, and when they get bored, it's on to the next on, and their ex has to find their own place, make their own money, all that jazz.[/quote]

"Keep around"... we're talking nearly 4 years. And she's 2.5 years from 40. Maybe if I was a great lay or looked like Matthew McConaughey and was eye candy to make others jealous you'd have a point. But as other posters have pointed out, I'm not. I find this so amusing. Some posters here are saying I must be fat and ugly. Others using my youth and looks to justify why she's keeping me around. No one has a good theory here.[/quote]

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