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What's "everything she stands to lose?" - you have not told us what you bring to the table besides indecision and history (baggage). Really, you're a freeloader. Maybe you know how to fix stuff? You don't portray yourself as much of a catch so i am not certain she is really losing out?

Easy. TIME. She wants kids. She's 37.

She has plenty of time, and money. Adoption, surrogate, donor eggs, etc, not to mention the fact of several more years of her own fertility.

I think you're being a little naive here. She's very traditional. Would not do surrogate/adoption/donor. Wants natural birth with husband. She still talks about where we will be vacationing next year and us visiting her family. Trust me, she's still very much in the relationship. I think most fair-minded posters would say that as she approaches 38 and fully invested in a relationship she's not exactly sitting around with time to play.[/quote]

Sorry, you are the naive one. You think this intelligent woman has not thought about the dynamics at play? As much as it pains you, clearly getting married and having kids with you just is not a huge priority for her. [/quote]

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