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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people are being a little harsh here.  It is hard for a man to truly get having a child until the child is here.  If dh is a good guy, he will come to his senses when the baby is born and sober up.

I've faced a similar problem.  The problem is that once you're in your 30s with plenty of money and not any children, there isn't anything else to do really.

OP you need to have a serious talk with your husband about how you feel and what his expectations are when you have a child.  Don't talk.  Listen.  I've found men often are very honest if you truly listen.  Ask him what he sees your family life like in the future and see what he says.   [/quote]

No, no, no.  Op is seeing a fertility doctor over this, the fertility doctor has said point blank that their issues are caused at least in part by the husband's drinking.  Op's husband continues to drink regardless. If that isn't a gigantic Red Flag I don't know what is.  This man is not ready to be a dad.[/quote]

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