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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again.

I am hesitant to book a flight for myself because now we are not 100% if DH will be able to come home that weekend to watch the kids. My kids are too little to do long sleepovers, and it's a lot to ask of friends.

I seriously don't get why this is such a big deal though. I can't imagine being pissed or judgemental toward someone if it were my wedding unless they simply decided last minute that they'd rather go on vacation or something. [/quote]
Your story keeps changing.[/quote]

Yes, it does - because in the last 24 hours, circumstances keep changing. DH called me last night and I asked him about me flying, but he is not sure that he will be able to come home that weekend at all due to things that are developing at work. Previously, I (and he) had believed he could. Also, my mom made a mistake while booking her return flight and ended up calling right away and cancelling, so she has no concrete plans now.

Is it really right to stick my kids in a car for 12 hours, stick them with a babysitter while I attend the wedding, and then drive back? And for DS to have to miss his recital? Not to mention the exam. I really don't get why it would be such a big deal to cancel. Everyone keeps saying how rude I would be for it, and that it should be obvious, but no one elaborates, and it just isn't obvious to me. Maybe that is one of my borderline aspie characteristics coming through. I'm not mean in real life. I just don't understand everything like others do.[/quote]

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