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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't afford the airfare. I understand the cost that must be born, but why do I have to shell out 300-400 on transportation? They will bear the cost whether I am there or not. Can't I just send them a nice card with some $$$?

Why does everyone get so polarized when it comes to weddings? I'm trying not to be rude here, but if it's such a huge deal to have ONE unfortunate, unexpected last minute no-show, then why have an expensive wedding in the first place? I had a wedding once too, but I can't imagine being pissed off if someone wasn't able to come due to changing/difficult circumstances. Then again, ours was very casual.

Maybe I'll wait and see if I can get a last minute deal on airfare. My mom has already decided to go ahead and use her ticket and fly back on the wedding day - she found a good ticket.[/quote]

You don't HAVE to do any of these things.  But you accepted the invitation.  It's rude to just change your mind.  Maybe you think that the benefits to you outweigh being rude, but don't kid yourself that it isn't rude.  [/quote]

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