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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I initiated a conversation about plans for the big day such as the venue, her gown etc. I asked her if she had bridal stores in mind that she wanted to try out I asked her how the plans were coming along I sent her a wedding planning check list along with a few gown shops suggestions I redirected her like 50 times I told her we needed to select and order her gown by the end of the week I was paying for her gown for upto X amount. I suggested she cuts the guest list by half to reduce the catering fees I bet they don't know half of these people it's making it very hard to feel useful. [/quote] OP, you sound more like her mother or her wedding planner than her friend. You want more than anything to be "useful" (controlling? in charge?) but that's not your job here. Back off on the wedding planning, and then be there next to her if and when she ends up getting married.[/quote]
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