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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am resigning for the simple reason that I feel I am not the right person. She needs someone who is less controlling. [/quote]But it might help you [i]a lot[/i] to work on being less controlling.  So why don't you use this as an opportunity to practice?[/quote]

PP you might also benefit from being less judgmental. . You have to understand there is a lot involved financially and timewise when it comes to destination weddings. You get better air ticket rates when you book a ticket a few months ahead, not to mention I would need to take time off. My biggest concern at this point is taking vacation time in September, buying non-refundable air tickets etc and then she ends up postponing the wedding.  There are red flags everywhere. If there was no wedding I would take my vacation in June. Refundable tickets are too expensive so that is not an option at this point. [/quote]
So the truth is that you don't think this wedding is going to happen so you don't want to waste your money and time. Tell her that. Saying that you are personally 'too controlling' to be her MOH sounds really strange and doesn't make any sense.[/quote]

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