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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am resigning for the simple reason that I feel I am not the right person. She needs someone who is less controlling. [/quote]

Well, if you are set on doing this, I would probably tell her that. Your relationship will probably recover faster (assuming it ever does) if you fully accept that the problem is you, not her.

If you are determined to do this, I might say:

"I need to tell you something. I realized I made a terrible mistake in agreeing to be your maid of honor. While I love you deeply, I have come to realize that I am way too controlling about this wedding to be a good and supportive friend. I know how incredibly rude it is for me to pull out of being your maid of honor, but I feel like I will do even more lasting damage to our relationship if I remain in this role. I am very sorry. I hope that some day you can forgive me, but I understand if you cannot."[/quote]

+1000 And then go get some therapy to deal with YOUR issues, not hers.[/quote]

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