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Happily married, but keep fantasizing about another man. I see this other man rarely (3x year) - but the last few times I saw him, I had VERY physical reaction down low and it was thrilling...very different than with other men.
Met husband at 18, together 20+ years and only man I've been with and I love him. I have never cheated. Though was very close with coworker once ... very tempted, but did not. I am faithful and likely not willing to stray....though want too very badly. A friend warned me to raise it with my husband or drop it. Good friend.

I think of him often and he makes me weak. I have to be careful about our interactions, but find myself thinking and ready to check in with him (email) to ask when he is next in our area - but if I saw him... could be trouble.

Not sure what I am asking--Maybe I just want a mind fantasy? How turn it around. [/quote]

OP, if it makes you feel any better, your husband has also developed intense crushes on other women and has fantasized about them during sex with you.  All normal.

Do not be alone with your crush especially when drinking.  Do not have intimate private email sessions with him.  You are vulnerable to making a bad decision.  In the event you decide you really want to find out what it's like to be with a man other than your husband, then do it as a ONS, but not with someone you already have feelings for.  If you have sex with your crush, your feelings will only intensify and you won't be able to discuss your heartache with anyone since you are cheating.

Channel the sexual energy to your husband, he will be thrilled to see you so turned on.[/quote]

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