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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, do you think your husband is good enough for you? I'm sensing that you want to punish SIL/the family because you have residual issues with their behavior/attitudes. [/quote] OP here: My husband is the love of my life. If I was the type to evaluate people according to degrees and earnings, I wouldn't be married to him, would I? I dated wealthy men before meeting him. When I say I fell in love with his character, I mean that as the highest praise. He has a beautiful heart and is of better character than 99% of people in the world. Apart from their racist views, his parents are nice people. Racism is a big character flaw, but they are a product of their blue collar, all white background, so I try to have patience and see them in their entirety. I do not mean to punish the family, but I feel hurt for SIL's boyfriend. The man is trying so hard and they can't look past his race. I have kept my distance, but now that he is approaching me for moral support and encouragement, I feel almost as if I will be responsible too if I let him keep wasting his time like this.[/quote]
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