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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A one night stand, protection used? No. An ongoing love affair because our marriage was in a bad place, yes.

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But the cause of your marriage being in a bad place is the affair.  You are mixing up the cause and effect, especially given the statistical likelihood that your marriage was happy before the affair.[/quote]
I think you have it backwards. An affair is an effect, not a cause.[/quote]

Someone posted the statistic on another thread. More than 50% of men who cheat characterize their marriages as happy or very happy. You start taking your attention and intimacy away from your spouse and expend all your romantic energy on your affair partner. Then you have to demonize your spouse, because if it isn't your spouse's fault that you are cheating, that would make you a bad person, and you cannot possible be a bad person in your own eyes.

Seriously, your cause and effect are completely wrong. You are spouting nonsense that has been debunked/[/quote]
So that one not very convincing statistic doesn't change my mind. An affair is an effect. It's fine if others disagree.[/quote]

I humbly submit that "facts" are better than your "opinion." I understand that many people cannot accept facts that directly contradict their own opinions, and I feel sorry that they are so intellectually stunted.[/quote]
How are you going to feel when the 'facts' in the one study you are hanging your life on are debunked? [/quote]

Move on, your AP is feeding you lies. His marriage is not a wreck, he is still getting it often at home, she is even a great cook and his best friend. You on the other hand are no more that a piece of ass. I love how pissed the OW get when wife gets pregnant. I am sure it was just one drunken night.  :roll: [/quote]
Put down your hammer, everything isn't a nail. And I'm sorry your husband cheated. But maybe talk to someone before he does it again.[/quote]

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