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Reply to "I wish my husband and I were friends again"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think carving out time for fun is a good idea, but marriage counseling might be in order too. It's just hard to tell from your post. Marriage counseling doesn't have to just be for couples who are on the verge of break up. I have zero intention of ever leaving my DH after more than a decade of marriage, and we both truly love each other, but we were becoming housemates and intimacy (both talking and sex) had basically disappeared. For us it wasn't just kids but other issues too from our backgrounds, plus some depression thrown into the mix. We did not feel like friends anymore. We are in counseling now (it took us a bit to find a good counselor we both liked) and it is helping A LOT. We are much closer, back to having excellent sex, etc. I agree that the years with small children are tough on a marriage but sometimes there might be more to it, and only you would know. But your guy sounds like a good guy and you sound loving too so I think things could improve..... [/quote]
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