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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife is a feminist, but when we had kids we eventually settled on an arrangement that leans toward the "traditional" side. I work full time. She took the IT skills she had and developed a business she could run from home and works during school hours. Meanwhile, I do considerably more care giving and chores than my father or grandfather would have done. Neither of us is ideologically rigid but are open to solutions that work best for our particular situation. [/quote] This is what we've done as well. It has worked really well, too! DH is from a country where men used to do almost no chores or childcare, and he really enjoys the childcare part of our family. Chores...eh, who likes those? But he listens to classic rock while he cleans up after dinner, so he makes that fun and it's kind of a cute tradition for our family, now. DH and I are both feminists.[/quote]
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