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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
1. Doesn't apologize for his actions.
2. Doesn't even acknowledge his actions.
3. Doesn't say that he needs to or will try to change.
4. Tries to deflect problems back on you (you're so emotional, you are taking care of others not him).
5. Uses the most painful experience of your life to try and provoke emotion.
6. Holds himself out as a nice guy who just wants to make you (and other, presumably including the other woman) happy.

He's a manipulative jerk.[/quote]

1. Assumes this letter is the sole communication about their marital problems.
2. Assumes that every conversation has to be about that.
3. Seems like he knows that's out of the question.
4. I interpreted as he recognizes she is always taking care of others, including him, but not including herself.
5. His daughter too, so probably also the worst experience of his life.
6. Do not disagree with this, but thought it was more aspirational.

He's a troubled person who needs to go to therapy. OP should definitely proceed with the separation, though.[/quote]

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