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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For right now, the best step forward is to make friends.  Do not allow a man to use you for sex, even if it means not having them ask you out.  I promise the right man is out there.  Focus on building hobbies and making friends, including with men.[/quote]

I am a DH, but I think this is excellent advice.  Be yourself, but "don't hide your light under a bushel" - get out there and do the things you like to do.  Also: be open to meeting and talking to guys.  All the women I've ever known who are single long term (not by choice) have a way of pushing people away or being too picky (looking for reasons to disqualify a guy)...avoid having a checklist.

[b]I know several "ordinary" women who are quite happily married, and they were never being pursued for the bodies/looks,[/b] several of them to guys who are objectively "hotter"...it is about personality, and if you are a nice person and not too picky, there is someone for you.[/quote]

This was definitely me. OP I had the exact opposite problem.  I decided for whatever reason men wouldn't be attracted to me.  So I always had a platonic boyfriend.  I was probably giving off some "i am not interested in you/dateable" vibes. I saw a therapist for some other issues and we discussed this.  And suddenly people were interested in me (or at least I saw that they were.)  Confidence goes a long way.
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Are you married /in a relationship now?[/quote]
No, I am still single. [/quote]

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