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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 43 year old asexual woman. I have adopted kids and while I would like a relationship, I know that it is unlikely anybody would want to date me.

OP, please dont take your child to a psychologist. That is demeaning and dismissive. She trusted you enough to tell you, so simply continue to love, accept, and support her.[/quote]

+1000

But I would also tell her that our sexuality changes throughout our lives. One can be asexual at 18, straight at 25, bisexual at 35, gay at 40, polyamorous at 20, happily monogamous at 30, joyfully single at 45. And the people who truly love and understand you, especially your mother, would never think less of you because you once used to identify differently.[/quote]Agree. My dd went through several different phases of declaring herself straight, then gay, then bi, then gay, then bi. She'll figure it out as she grows up.

I'm not sure I'd worry too much about her not having masturbated. I know things have changed since I was young but it's more complicated for girls than boys and unless you're talking to friends in detail or consulting the Internet, it isn't necessarily obvious (meaning, movies and TV still suck when depicting sex) how to come to climax. [/quote]

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