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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait, are you saying that you are planning to tell her she can't bring the baby to the wedding before she has the baby and before you even send the invitations out?

It almost sounded like you were planning to saying "congratulations on the new baby, you know, the on you can't bring to my wedding".

You can absolutely make it an adults only event and deal with whatever tantrum she she throws, including  refusing to come, getting your MIL involved in the drama, or whatever, but you cannot do this until it gets much closer and the invitations are out. [/quote]

Yes because she stole her wedding thunder by announcing her pregnancy.

I was taken aback by the OP who is holding a grudge for the bridesmaid thing.[b] The bride didn't invite her soon to be BIL's girlfriend to be a bridesmaid[/b]. That is actually pretty normal-- people break up all the time so why have that person in your wedding?

This poor family. The poor groom. If they make it to the wedding I give it 3 years until divorce. [/quote]

I wondered about that, too.  Yes, it was petty of the SIL not to let her future BIL bring his long-term girlfriend with him to the rehearsal dinner, but maybe no one brought a date to the dinner.  It's clear that the OP doesn't like the SIL, which is her prerogative--maybe the SIL isn't a very nice person--but letting dislike and a desire to get back at someone play any role in your wedding-related decisions indicates a major attitude problem.  I've found that every decision I've made out of spite has not turned out well, and I'm pretty sure that goes double for wedding planning and babies.  [/quote]

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