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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And some sympathy, too.

This is a response to the "husband sucks in bed" thread that started in non-explicit, got moved, and then trolled to the point of futility. So, here's an attempt at reframing the issue and inviting discussion.

The original poster admitted to craving "dominate & agressive" men in bed. Meanwhile, DW loves her husband for his cooperative, egalitarian parenting and spirit.

My read is that OP is independent, direct, accomplished and assertive. DH probably finds this attractive, respects DW for it, and demonstrates this by not being a boor.

That said, how does this guy know when to be Alan Alda and when to be a bad boy?

(Note:  this is posted on explicit, too, so if you want to offer that type of advice, hop over there.  See, the inclination some of us confused guys have about treading lightly when we love strong, independent women?) :)[/quote]
I am the "husband sucks" OP.  It is really simple IMO.  I am strong, assertive, and often no nonsense at work.  At home, however, I am gentler and in the bedroom, I am even more gentle and eager to please. (I am at my gentlest with my babies.)  It is like peeling off layers of an onion.  Perhaps men just tend to lack the complexity that women often naturally possess, but I have definitely dated men who are courteous and professional on the outside only to turn into raging bulls in the bedroom.  Do you really not have a side of you that longs to take control?[/quote]

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