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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The trappings of middle class childhood (orthodontia, tutors, preschool, extracurriculars) are expensive. You could forego them, feed your kids cheap food, dress them in handmedowns, etc and save at least several thousand a year. I had none of the things DCUM thinks are essential to success (my parents couldn't afford them), still went to college, and have a professional career.[/quote]

Maybe so, maybe not.

My 17yo has significant ADD and has both an organizational coach and a specialized tutor, at $60 and $80 per hour each, every week.  Prior to putting supports into place, he was failing several classes and struggling mightily.  We will likely be looking into tutoring services wherever he ends up at school (and our large state schools are probably not a good fit for him given his issues).

My 13yo DD is a talented violinist and her weekly lessons are $70, plus orchestra fees ($900/year).

They have both had orthodontia for medical (not cosmetic) reasons.

I would not call any of these non-essential - and they are in addition to (past and present and future):

Childcare
Food (exponentially higher with teenagers)
Clothing
Extracurriculars
Summer camps
Lessons
Saving for college tuition
Insurance for a teen driver
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Jinx... Hope you 17 yo is doing well![/quote]

Yours too!

I just feel grateful that we can ~knock on wood~ meet their needs.[/quote]

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