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A man who wants to be a full time father can do so using a surrogate. Gay men do it - I know of a couple of instances  where this has happened one of them with his partner has two children and the other has one. It really is not a huge obstacle. And even the cost of surrogacy can be minimized with a surrogate from another country. Marriage is not a prerequisite for a man to derive the benefits and satisfaction of being a father.

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Oh don't be silly.  The options you cite are neither cheap nor available to regular Joes.  I too know a married gay couple who had twins via surrogacy. It cost them a hundred thousand dollars.  Surrogacy in other countries is neither cheap nor easy, and comes with its own set of troubles. Undoubtedly, some men - the rich, the determined and the very liberal - will be able to use them.  Most men won't, though.  And these options are in fact, almost insurmountable obstacles, especially compared with the amazing ease and low cost of sperm banks and anonymous sex, so easily available to women.  And so we come to this, again: fatherhood, for most men, requires a cooperating partner of the opposite sex.  Motherhood, for women, does not. And this is why most men who want to be full-time fathers will have to pay the price of marrying or stay childless. [/quote]

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