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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow.  Sex it is, overwhelmingly.  Thanks, guys.[/quote]

It is sex, but it's also what sex represents to a lot of men. I think some women fundamentally don't understand how sex ties into a man's feeling of being loved. It's not just chasing an orgasm. When a man's been with an asexual wife, he's been without love for a long period of time. [/quote]

I'm the Op. This is something I've learned about men, mostly from reading the sexless marriage threads in the explicit section.  I was in one too and it's devastating.  I started this thread because I feel like now that I'm dating my focus is on sex, attraction, chemistry. I know that's one of the qualities I have to offer a man but I was wondering what else they look for in a woman. Based on this thread it seems like for the second marriage sex is enough!  Which is a relief, frankly. [/quote]

Sex will NOT sustain a relationship. I have seen a number of marriages that failed and they said the main area they were compatible in was sex. If you truly want to know how to have a successful 2nd marriage journal the first marriage. See what was good and what wasn't. And if you don't know what men want in a relationship...and there is no absolute to that...then how about reading on it to better understand men. BUT, you will need to get to know the man you are serious about. Communication is far more important than sex.

Right now it would seem that after being on a sexual starvation diet you are making up for lost time. Understandable. But if the man you 'pick' only fits those three criteria you listed and his main interest in you is because he likes, among other things, getting ON, BEHIND, UNDER & IN you...the relationship will be shallow at best and probably fail.[/quote]

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