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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, I would be goddamned if I'd lose half my parenting time with my child because of my ex and some whore.  I truly would do whatever it took to prevent myself from losing any time.  I would lie, cheat, and say whatever to prevent it.  You have my sympathy, OP.  [/quote]

My DH's ex-wife said exactly that.  Them, she did it.  She lied in court.  She made false allegations of abuse.  She appeared angry, vindictive, and a little crazy.

We walked out of the courtroom with primary physical custody of both of the kids. They were 4 and 7 at the time.  She got every other weekend and four weeks during the summer.

You do not want to follow this advise, OP.[/quote]

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Yes, you always post this... were you a homewrecker ? And you our proud you took some other women's kids? It's clear by your continous posting of this scenario you are at once very proud of your behavior and rather mad (in the hatter sort of way). [/quote]

I was not a "homewrecker".  I did not "take some other women's kids".  I am very proud of my behavior because despite the ugly allegations, constant attempts to alienate the kids from their dad, and threats, my DH and I were able to rise above it.  We didn't retaliate even when we really, really wanted to.  I have never said an unkind thing to my stepkids' mother.  I am very proud of that.

Had my husband's ex-wife acted more like an adult, the outcome would have been very different.   The post I responded to suggested lying and cheating to prevent the other parent from access to his children.  I am simply pointing out that often that kind of behavior backfires.  [/quote]

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